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Grown for the most part between the summer oratory of bobbiate (District located in Varese, a small town in Italy, the basketball court and the school; I often got lost in my mental travels to imagine being a playboy, famous in high school and being the superstar of the basketball team. But the cruel reality was that I was a young 13-year-old boy who recently arrived in this little town scared, intimidated by any interaction. All this to say that these moments of solitude where I could visualize myself in a better situation made me happy. Then one day you discover the true definition of this exercise. POWER OF VISUALIZATION "is the act of visualizing something or someone or forming a picture of it in your mind. it's almost like looking through a particular lens, your unconscious, your imagination, your deepest desire and seeing your life unfold within your inner eye" ANYTHING YOU CAN IMAGINE, YOU CAN CREATE, SO CLOSE YOUR EYE AND  CREATE YOUR OWN WORLD . SOMEHOW AND SOMEW...

  I'm always amazed at people's reactions when they see me inside the premises of the company I work for. Their face describes the perfect expression: "HOW CAN THIS WORK IN A SIMILAR COMPANY". The last episode happened just today during my lunch break. I was in the coffee area when a worker from the company arrived who is carrying out the restoration work on the offices. This middle-aged gentleman looked at me and said, "Hi brother" smiled and rested with a simple "Hi"; I stood looking at myself for a moment, incredulous of what was happening before his eyes. I wanted so much to tell him: "Oh yes, brother, you too could have succeeded, surely your children will do better than me. It will not be easy, they will make sacrifices, they will suffer insults, mockery on their body, linguistic, ethnic diversity but they will make it. They will not have to find themselves sitting in front of the kitchen table in the evening, with too many days left bef...

Boundaries are expectations and needs that help you feel safe and comfortable in your relationships. Expectations in relationships help you stay mentally and emotionally well.  Learning when to say no and when to say yes is also an essential part of feeling comfortable when interacting with others. Remember this, people treat you according to your boundaries. During these 9 years of work, I have had various experiences with people of all kinds.  But there was always a constant that I noticed in my colleagues, something that turned them off as soon as they crossed the threshold of stamping.  Over time I revealed that mysterious feeling that animated them.  What it was??  Well I would say that they had surrendered to their daily routine immediately, anxiously accepting the pay day, with the hope of better days that vanish day after day;  I was dragging myself to their peak with my nerves already tense, carrying the burdens of economic, personal, and ultimatel...

There is a time in everyone's life when you realize that your life is about to change completely.  It can be due to an event, a decision or something else.  Planning every moment of our life without taking into account that life will throw us any challenge from the most difficult to the most trivial to help us find our way or emerge in a vicious circle of melancholy, depression, envy, luxuriate a complete menu of hell  Dante. Today I will talk a little about my story, a boy raised in West Africa where the equator kisses the Atlantic Ocean creating a mix of dream temperatures with seaside resorts, rain forests, fabulous mountains and his cathedral to honor the Vatican. Grew up in the economic part of the country, with a carefree youth, dedicated to education, sports development candied by the warmth that only Africa can grant you. But one day, I found myself in a cabin sitting next to my father, in the direction of Milan Malpensa, 24 hours later I found myself in a small a...

  You have been a particularly exhausting year emotionally, mentally and even a little bit physically.     But sometimes you have reserved pleasant surprises for me, not being able to make a bundle of grass I must say that you have been full of so many illuminations, but let's proceed with small steps, guys.  It was January 26, 2020, I was still thinking locally about the previous year's performance;    two months earlier my first child was born "beautiful experience" a good breath of air and happiness had established itself in my daily life.    When she received a message from my sister, with the subject of a shocking news.    Unfortunately, the kind of news that you never expect to receive because it seems so absurd, unthinkable, fake news, instead Sir Kobe Bean Bryant and his daughter Gianna Bryant and other collaborators had not just died in a helicopter accident while they were going to the    Manba Academy for a basketbal...

 As in any relationship we often and willingly find ourselves in moments, arguments, people we cannot or rather we cannot talk about with our girlfriend, partner or wife because every time the topic is brought up it ends with a dispute or worse  a quarrel.  According to a British study 69% of the causes that lead to divorce come from internal problems during the couple's daily life that are never resolved. Thing about of  69% of disputes are never resolved, it is a tremendously huge figure. Unfortunately, the latter do not remain alone at home but are taken to the workplace and in relationships with other people.  So what do we do when there are these situations?  Often and willingly we give up, let it go or simply avoid the topic until we understand that dinner or outing where an acquaintance brings us What leads us to have these situations in our lives: 1. Let's go back to our childhood and take our parents as a starting point, who often and willingly I h...